The Making of a Man: Raising Honor in a World That Will Try to Define Him First
They told us he might not live. He's here. They told us he might not breathe on his own. He came out quiet, but breathing, for sure. Here's the song that became our story.
Helpless, But Not Hopeless: What a Fetal Diagnosis Taught Me About Faith
At my 20-week scan, a doctor told me my son had a mass in his chest cavity larger than any he'd ever seen. I went in jolly and excited. I left an absolute wreck. Here's what God did next.
Our Watch Has Ended: A Defense of the Game of Thrones Finale Nobody Asked For
No one had to spend millions of dollars entertaining you for eight seasons. They did it anyway — and in my humble opinion, they did it well. Here's why the finale was exactly what it was always going to be.
A Fight for Control: The Day I Realized I Wasn't Actually Following God
I had Jesus in my heart — or so I thought. Then God showed me that having Him in a section of your heart is actually not having Him at all.
The Morning I Found Out I Was Making a Human
A baby was not on my radar. I was too busy building a marriage, a career, and honestly... myself. Then one morning in the dark, everything changed.
What My Dad Taught Me About Work, Life, and Never Stopping at Exit 62
Bryant Wilder went from clerical typist to Deputy Regional Commissioner — and still made homemade waffles whenever his girls asked. Here's what 25 years of watching him taught me.
When God Gets Into Your Career Plans (And You Let Him)
When people told me I was too smart to be a hairdresser, I spiraled. Then I found God's sovereignty in a blowout chair — and it changed how I see everything.
What Doing Hair Taught Me About Trusting God With My Career
I passed my cosmetology boards and got into an MFA program in the same season. I wasn't going to tell anyone — then the Holy Spirit had other thoughts.
I Thought I Was Saved—Until I Actually Understood the Gospel
"For Christ's sake—literally. This is the story of how I thought I was saved, went to church my whole life, and still didn't understand the Gospel until I was forced to reckon with what I actually believed."
What If Your Gifts Don't Make Sense? (Trust Them Anyway)
What if your gifts don't make sense? What if you're a hairstylist who loves theology, or a writer who's obsessed with systems? Trust them anyway. God doesn't make mistakes.
IKIGAI: The Book Where I Prove Love Is Not Enough
I gave y'all a break! But now it's time to dive back into IKIGAI—the book where I explore what happens when love isn't enough to hold a relationship together. Get ready for truth, tears, and transformation.
The Day I Realized My Website Didn't Reflect Who I Am Anymore
It is okay to dramatically change. It is okay to not like something today that you liked yesterday. It is okay to change your mind. It is okay to be a different person and make a different choice.
Why I Became a Hairdresser: It Was Never Just About Hair
The difference you'd make with all that brain in your head!
Have you ever touched someone's head?
Cause where I come from that's a sign of disrespect ...
Unless you're a ... hairdresser or a barber.
What #CrownSZN Means (And Why I Keep Saying It)
If we put all these things together, I am proclaiming that it is the season of victory - time for ladies and gentlemen to find their crown (their mark of honor) and wear it on their crown (the topmost part of the skull) with their head held high.
What I Told 7th Graders About Leadership (And What I Needed to Hear Myself)
Leadership is the art of service. It is the constant thoughts and worry about every individual that you feel or actually are responsible for. It is putting your needs aside for the needs of those around you, those that respect you and those that look to you for help and guidance. It is about giving and giving and giving and giving.
How I Wrote and Self-Published My First Book in 3 Months
People do not only make time for the people they want, but people make time for the things they want to do. With any amount of determination that lives inside of you, if you wake up one day and say you want to do something - you do it. There are no excuses.