The Other Side of Shame: What Nobody Tells You About What's Waiting There
I am not Brené Brown. I am not an expert on shame. What I have is life, lessons, and ears that have listened long enough.
The Woman at the Well: Finding Hope in Out-of-the-Way Places
She came to the well at noon — when the sun was hottest and the crowds were thinnest. Intentionally.
Sinners vs. The Chosen: When Christian Criticism Contradicts Christian Consumption
There's been a lot of noise lately about Sinners — a film many “critics” haven't even seen.
Not Catholic, Still Convicted: What the Black Church Can Learn From Pope Francis
I was raised Pentecostal, but educated Catholic from Pre-K through 12th grade.
Why I Stayed a Christian When I Could Have Walked Away
I think about why more people don't rush toward Christianity. My answer usually comes down to the same reason I'm not running toward any other religion.
The Poetry of Loss and Images of Abundance: What Job Taught Me About God's Power
'Where were you when I laid the earth's foundation?' So... poetry from Psalms, right? Nope. This is Job.
Everyday Bravery: What My 3-Year-Old Taught Me About Courage I Forgot I Had
On the ride home a few weeks ago, Tre told me there were scary things at his school. There was an alligator, he said.
The Sin of Convenient Amnesia: What the Israelites Taught Me About Trusting God
I was not rushing to read the book of Numbers. It's hard to read — and this is from someone who doesn't love to read anyway.
I Can't Swim But Water Has Saved Me: On OMI, Divorce, and the God Who Calms the Waves
I can't swim. Water can kill me. And yet I started a business about hope called 'water' — OMI.
God is Not Twiddling His Thumbs: A Poem for the Days When the World Feels Out of Control
"The planes crashed. The fires burned. The inauguration happened. And I sat with the very human urge to believe that God had looked away. He hadn't. Here's the poem that came out of that."
The Gospel According to Tobe Nwigwe: What One Song Said That the Church Wouldn't
"Tobe Nwigwe said the thing the church has been tiptoeing around for years — out loud, on a record, with his whole chest. The response told me everything I needed to know about who's actually ready for the gospel and who just likes the idea of it."
A Tribute to My Mother at 60: Strength, Peace, and the Prayer She Modeled for All of Us
My mother walked into a room of 300 people who came specifically for her — and still managed to make every single one of them feel like the guest of honor. That's Andrea Wilder.
The Cost of Patience: How Enduring Love Actually Costs You
My problem is that it takes me too long to reach my boiling point. Truth be told, I'm blessed.
Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome: What Nobody Tells Black Women About Both
I sought therapy determined to unpack my need for perfection. At the very same time, I've tried to write this single blog post three times. Stopping each time because it wasn't 'it.'
Cleaning Up My Smile: What an Anonymous Text Taught Me About Shame and Self-Worth
'When are you going to get the stains off your teeth? Don't you think it's embarrassing?' The text came from a random number.
A Loud Letter to the Quiet Keep-the-Peacers: On Learning to Defend Yourself
I've always been the defender. When my friends needed someone to stand up for them, I was there, ready to speak up.
Brother Love, Brother Pastor: What Diddy and Church Leaders Have in Common
From religious institutions to the glamorous yet guarded realms of celebrity, the patterns disturbingly mirror one another.
My House Was Built on You: What a Churchy Teenager on Instagram Reminded Me About God
It's an ordinary night to end an anything-but-ordinary day. Jarrett Billups is a hilarious churchy teenager who makes videos being himself.
Formerly Unwell: A Poem About the Woman at the Well and Every Woman Who's Been Her
She was silenced, isolated, vulnerable, scrutinized, and hiding. She met Jesus who went out of His way to break the rules just for her.
Lost and Found: How Reconnecting With Your Inner Child Unlocks Who You Were Always Meant to Be
I can taste the confidence I ate in high school. Top of my class, acne-free, skillful dancer, powerful stepper, free writer.