Why I Write: How Personal Storytelling Inspires Hope and Creates Real Change
Great writing is three parts — and they're not equal. One part is skill (about 20%). One part is idea (another 20%).
The Cost of Patience: How Enduring Love Actually Costs You
My problem is that it takes me too long to reach my boiling point. Truth be told, I'm blessed.
Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome: What Nobody Tells Black Women About Both
I sought therapy determined to unpack my need for perfection. At the very same time, I've tried to write this single blog post three times. Stopping each time because it wasn't 'it.'
Cleaning Up My Smile: What an Anonymous Text Taught Me About Shame and Self-Worth
'When are you going to get the stains off your teeth? Don't you think it's embarrassing?' The text came from a random number.
A Loud Letter to the Quiet Keep-the-Peacers: On Learning to Defend Yourself
I've always been the defender. When my friends needed someone to stand up for them, I was there, ready to speak up.
Brother Love, Brother Pastor: What Diddy and Church Leaders Have in Common
From religious institutions to the glamorous yet guarded realms of celebrity, the patterns disturbingly mirror one another.
My House Was Built on You: What a Churchy Teenager on Instagram Reminded Me About God
It's an ordinary night to end an anything-but-ordinary day. Jarrett Billups is a hilarious churchy teenager who makes videos being himself.
Kids Before 30 (Or Not): A Dr. Seuss-Inspired Poem About the Choice Nobody Warned You About
Inspired by Dr. Seuss' Fox in Socks — so you can tell which path I've chosen. Kiddos before you're thirty? There's more to say.
The Power of Pen and Paper: Why Writing Is Still the Most Dangerous Thing You Can Do
What's scarier than monsters, mosquitoes and failure? Forgetting. History is a game of telephone until it's written — until it's timeless.
Heartstrings and High Values: A Poem About What's Actually Missing From Dating Today
It's been said I'm an anxious attacher. Too much of a mother. In my masculine era. A holder-oner. A believe-in-lover.
One Hoe Does: A Poem About Who We Actually Blame and Why
The thing about hoes is — they wouldn't be hoes if y'all left them alone. So what's the allure?
Getting Money: A Poem About Wealth That Can't Be Taken Away
A journey long, not for the faint. Hamilton waits. Who is rich, Alex? One who invests in self, in small habits, in smart circles.
Formerly Unwell: A Poem About the Woman at the Well and Every Woman Who's Been Her
She was silenced, isolated, vulnerable, scrutinized, and hiding. She met Jesus who went out of His way to break the rules just for her.
Hungry: A Poem Written as a Recipe for Everything Worth Having
Stay hungry. Mostly for love. I like sweet things. Last time though, something was off.
Crumbling: A Poem About Beautiful Brokenness
A crumbling cake still smells sweet. Still tastes like heaven. Still melts the same — maybe just a little faster.
Ever After: A Poem About What Comes After the Happily
Ever after what ever after? ever after what? The prompt for the day was 'ever after' not 'happily ever after' which was the plot twist I needed.
Lost and Found: How Reconnecting With Your Inner Child Unlocks Who You Were Always Meant to Be
I can taste the confidence I ate in high school. Top of my class, acne-free, skillful dancer, powerful stepper, free writer.
Good: An Easter Poem About the Friday That Didn't Look Like It
It's not looking too good. When he kept saying 'my time' I thought it meant His time to rescue us.
Who Would've Thought: On Awards, Consistency, and God Doing What God Does
All I cared about was Hot Wheels, dolls' hair, being a doctor one day and maintaining my small close group of friends.
Rihanna's Super Bowl LVII Halftime Show Was a Masterclass in Talent and Motherhood
She didn't just perform. She showed up pregnant and redefined the stage.